“I’ll figure it out later.”
“It’s too hard.”
“There’s too much competition.”
“I don’t have enough money.”
An excuse is what holds a person back. People make excuses all the time, but then claim that it’s not actually an “excuse” that they are making. They rationalize a wide range of things. There are excuses for why a person can’t get the job they want, why obligation can’t be paid off, why a person needs a pristine car, why a person can’t improve their lives, and so on. I’m not saying that life isn’t troublesome or that everyone else’s life is perfect. Everyone has encounters challenges – no matter how great you may perceive a person’s life to be. Start changing your life for the better, NOW. I’m not going to baby anyone, and unfortunately, making excuses holds a lot of people back. Reasons are an exercise in futility, they won’t fix your issues, they hold you back, and they won’t help you or your future at all. “Complaining is for losers”. Now in our human life, anybody of us can accomplish something epic and bind it to our energy.
- Let us take an example an Australian mining engineer, athlete, motivational speaker, and author, Turia Pitt, she suffered 65% burns on her entire body during a marathon in 2011, when hope was lost to save her and her identity, she came out strong and with a better attitude towards life and now is an motivational speaker and an author.
- Another well-known example is of Nick Vujicic who was born without hands or legs, his parents considered as a disgrace, but eventually convinced themselves by saying that maybe god has a plan for him. Today a CEO and President of two companies, recruits dozens of employees and is an inspiration and motivation to thousands across the world.
- There are numerous examples of such people around the globe, lastly about Rajnikanth an actor who lived in a dissipated state during his childhood and deprived of his meals worked his way towards becoming India’s second highest paid actors and is now considered “Bhagwan” among people.
We win some and lose some—that’s how it goes when it comes to challenges. We don’t generally escape a circumstance successful, other times we also fail. The only good thing about failing is that we can get back out there and attempt it once more. We can improve. We can be better the next time around. We simply need to pick ourselves up and do better. “Don’t bury your failures. Let them inspire you.” How Should You React to Failure?
- Be Reasonable
- Don’t take failure literally
- Accept responsibility
- Be pleasant to yourself
- Get back on the horse
- Grow from your mistakes
- Don’t quit
- Stop nagging on past failures Here are a few things you can follow to battle disappointment
- Find a shoulder
- Sweat it out
- Take up a hobby It’s your demeanour shift that will change you, thoughts like:
- Epic content that is extraordinarily you
- A mentality that comes from embracing self-awareness
- A solution to an issue could be straightforward such as entertainment for a bored person.
Quit telling yourself that you don’t have time. You do possess energy for your enthusiasm on the off chance that you make it the main need and pick your energy. Sustained focus must not be forgotten. Settling on awkward choices to centre your enthusiasm is the way you begin seeing a return. That return, incidentally, is satisfaction. What begins as one enthusiasm can become something other than what's expected. Your reason for not living your enthusiasm could be just a basic instance of what I like to call "Mistaken Passion." It probably won't be anything but difficult to defeat the reasons, particularly on the off chance that it has arrived at the purpose of turning into a negative behaviour pattern. In any case, consider this, unfortunate habits can be broken! So show restraint, remain hopeful, and above all, proceed – in any event, when it seems like you're going no place. Before you know it, you'll be punching every one of your reasons in the face and developing into the best form of yourself. Go on, you got this!
